 If you believe in the power of mentorship, practical guidance, and helping people move closer to their goals, the Wite Collar brand affiliate program may be a natural fit for you. Wite Collar is an online skills-building platform designed to connect adult learners with experienced mentors, also called skills builders, who can help them learn, grow, and move with more confidence in business, career, hobbies, trades, and personal purpose.
As a brand affiliate, your role is simple but meaningful: share Wite Collar with people who could genuinely benefit from it. When someone you refer downloads the app, completes onboarding, and connects with a mentor, you can earn $25 for that successful referral. What Is Wite Collar? Wite Collar is more than an app. It is a digital space where people can find guidance without having to jump between platforms, emails, text messages, or external video links. Through the app, users can message mentors, schedule virtual sessions, and receive support directly within one platform. The mission is intentionally broad because success looks different for everyone. Some users may want to start a business. Others may want to grow in their careers, learn a trade, explore a hobby, or finally get support around a passion they have been carrying for years. Whether someone wants to monetize a skill or simply learn something new, Wite Collar exists to make that connection easier. What Does a Brand Affiliate Do? A Wite Collar brand affiliate helps spread the word about the platform in a natural, trustworthy way. This is not about being overly salesy or pressuring people to join. It is about recognizing when Wite Collar could be a helpful resource and introducing it to someone at the right moment. For example, if a family member recently graduated and feels unsure about their next step, Wite Collar may help them connect with someone who can offer direction. If a friend is unhappy in their career, wants to start a business, or is curious about learning a skill like gardening, design, marketing, or another field, you can introduce Wite Collar as a resource worth exploring. How the Affiliate Program Works
Who Makes a Strong Wite Collar Affiliate? The best affiliates are self-starters. They are motivated, curious, and comfortable taking initiative without needing constant reminders or handholding. They understand that this is not a full-time job or primary income source. Instead, it is an opportunity to earn extra money while supporting a brand they genuinely believe in. Wite Collar is especially focused on serving transition-age youth and young adults, including people ages 18 to 24, college-age individuals, recent graduates, and early-career adults who may benefit from guidance at a pivotal stage of life. Affiliates should keep this audience in mind while also recognizing that mentorship and skills building can help people at many different ages and stages. Before You Commit, Ask Yourself These Questions
Smart Ways to Share Wite Collar Start close to home. Your friends, family, classmates, coworkers, and community connections are more likely to listen because they already trust you. If someone shares that they feel stuck, need career direction, want to learn a new skill, or are exploring a new path, mention Wite Collar as a possible next step. When you share, make it personal and specific. Instead of saying, “You should download this app,” explain how it could connect them with someone who has real experience in the area they care about. A practical example will always be stronger than a generic pitch. The Fortune Is in the Follow-Up After you introduce someone to Wite Collar, check in respectfully. Ask whether they downloaded the app, completed onboarding, and found a mentor who aligns with their goals. If they cannot find a mentor in the industry they need, that feedback is valuable. Wite Collar can use that insight to identify areas where more skills builders may be needed. The key is balance. Follow up enough to be helpful, but not so much that people feel pressured. Career, business, purpose, and personal growth can be sensitive topics, so approach every conversation with patience and respect. What Not to Do as an Affiliate
Keep Track of Your Referrals As you begin referring people, keep your own record of who you sent to Wite Collar and when. A simple spreadsheet or document can help you stay organized and compare your records with confirmed referrals. Strong affiliates who consistently bring in users may also be considered for future opportunities, brand gear, or additional ways to represent Wite Collar. How to Get Started If you are interested in becoming a Wite Collar brand affiliate, start by learning the brand, downloading the app from the Google Play Store or Apple App Store, and attending office hours when available. Wite Collar hosts office hours on Tuesdays at 1 p.m. Eastern, giving interested affiliates a chance to ask questions, stay informed, and remain connected to the mission. For questions or interest in joining an affiliate cohort, reach out to Wite Collar at [email protected]. Final Thoughts Becoming a Wite Collar brand affiliate is not about chasing a big payday. It is about being part of a growing community of people who believe skills, mentorship, and access can change someone’s path. If you know people who are ready to learn, grow, explore a passion, or get guidance from someone who has walked the road before them, Wite Collar gives you a simple way to connect them to the support they need—and earn a small reward for helping make that connection happen. *****This post is AI generated from a live replay on our YouTube channel.**************
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 If you are working hard, doing your job well, and still feeling financially squeezed or professionally stuck, you are not alone. Many working-class professionals are carrying the weight of rising costs, stagnant wages, limited advancement opportunities, and the pressure to simply be “grateful” for employment. But gratitude does not pay bills. Loyalty does not automatically create opportunity. And silence rarely leads to promotion.
Self-advocacy is not arrogance. It is not being difficult. It is the skill of clearly communicating your value, asking for what you need, and making strategic moves that support the life you are trying to build. Whether you are interviewing for a new role, trying to move up inside your company, building a side business, or looking for funding to sharpen your skills, self-advocacy is one of the most important career skills you can develop. Salary Negotiation Is Self-Advocacy One of the hardest conversations for many job seekers is salary. People avoid it because they fear rejection, conflict, or losing the opportunity altogether. So they wait for the employer to make an offer, accept the first number, and only later realize the salary does not match the workload, stress, or cost of living. That is why salary negotiation matters. The first offer is often not the best offer. Employers usually have room to move, but they may not volunteer more money unless you ask. Negotiation is not about being greedy; it is about making sure the role supports your livelihood, your goals, and your ability to show up at work as your best self. Real-life example of turning down a low offer: Imagine applying for one position and being offered a supervisory role instead because the employer recognizes your experience. The role sounds promising, but then you learn the salary is much lower than expected—especially for supervising a team. Instead of accepting out of fear, you tell HR the salary is too low and does not fit your financial needs. They call back offering $5,000 more. You still decline. They call back again with $5,000 more on top of their previous offer, reaching the top of their salary range. You take time to run the numbers, consider your goals, and decide the offer still does not provide enough room for emergencies, further education, or the life you are building. You give them your number. They do not move forward. That may sound like a loss, but it is actually a powerful example of self-advocacy. The goal is not to win every negotiation. The goal is to know your number, understand your value, and be willing to walk away when the opportunity does not align with your needs. Try this script, “Thank you for the offer. I’m excited about the role and the value I can bring. Based on the responsibilities, my experience, and what I need to perform at my best, I would need to be closer to [your number]. Is there room to adjust the compensation?” Do Not Let a Job Keep You Stuck Self-advocacy does not stop once you accept a job. After two or three years in the same role, you should be having honest conversations with your supervisor about what comes next. That might mean a promotion, a lateral move, a transfer, additional training, or a project that helps you build new skills. Sometimes being excellent at your job can work against you. If your manager depends on you too much, they may not encourage you to move into another role. You become so valuable where you are that nobody wants to release you. But staying good at one thing forever can limit your income, your confidence, and your long-term options. If you have been applying for internal roles, asking about opportunities, and still getting no interviews or support, that may be a sign to look outside the company. Growth sometimes requires leaving the environment that has already decided who you are. Conversation starter for your supervisor: “I enjoy the work I do here, and I want to keep growing with the company. What roles do you think I should be preparing for next, and what skills or training would help me become a stronger candidate?” Stack Transferable Skills Before You Need Them Working-class professionals often feel trapped because their current role has taught them one narrow function. The way out is skill stacking: building abilities that transfer across departments, industries, and income levels. Communication, supervision, project coordination, customer service, documentation, training, sales, operations, technology, and leadership are all skills that can travel with you. For example, an administrative assistant who starts documenting workflows, training new hires, and improving scheduling systems is no longer “just” doing admin work. They are building operations, training, and process-improvement experience. A warehouse worker who learns inventory systems, safety compliance, and team coordination is building logistics and supervisory experience. The point is to name the skills you already use, then add the skills that make you promotable. Business Owners Must Advocate Through Pricing If you run a business, self-advocacy looks different—but it matters just as much. It starts with understanding your worth and pricing your services accordingly. This is especially true for coaches, consultants, mentors, service providers, and anyone who sells expertise. Do not lowball yourself just to make people comfortable. If you charge too little, you may become resentful, rushed, or exhausted—and that can affect the experience you give your clients. Your price should reflect your experience, your preparation, your results, your time, and the fact that your business has to sustain you. When someone asks your rate, state it clearly. If your rate is $100 per hour, say, “My rate is $100 per hour.” Do not immediately discount yourself, apologize, or offer a payment plan before the person even asks. When you assume people cannot pay, you teach them to negotiate you down before they have even valued your work. Real-life example: how to say your price with confidence. A consultant who says, “My rate is $100 per hour, but we can probably work something out,” sounds unsure. A consultant who says, “My rate is $100 per hour. Here is what is included, and here is the outcome we will work toward,” sounds prepared. Confidence helps buyers trust that you can deliver. Partnerships Beat Posting Although social media is useful, it should not be your whole business strategy. Algorithms change. Promotional posts instead of paid ads get hidden. People may see your event five days after it happened. If you are relying only on posting and hoping, you are giving too much control to platforms you do not own. At least part of your business-building time should go toward direct outreach: emailing organizations, following up with potential collaborators, calling businesses, leaving voicemails, and building partnerships with people or companies that share your audience. Bigger organizations can give you visibility, credibility, and access to people you might not reach alone. Do not be afraid to follow up more than once. Maybe they missed the first email. Maybe they were not ready then but will be ready later. Maybe they pinned the idea mentally and need a reminder. The strength is in the follow-up game. Create Paid Opportunities, Not Just Free Content Free content can attract attention, but a business cannot survive on attention alone. If lead magnets, free events, and free posts are not turning into paying clients, change the strategy. Host online events, workshops, mini-trainings, or small paid sessions. Even a nominal fee can help you attract people who are already comfortable investing. Platforms like Eventbrite or Luma can help promote events, but the deeper lesson is bigger than the platform: make your expertise visible, make it accessible, and make it valuable. If something is not working, do not keep forcing it. Abort, adjust, and try a different channel. Use Resources: Scholarships, Mentorship, Certifications, and AI If further education, certification, or mentorship feels financially out of reach, look for funding before you assume the answer is no. Scholarship platforms and small financial awards can help pay for courses, certificates, degree programs, and even mentorship. Instead of relying only on student loans or your savings, stack multiple small awards when possible. Mentorship is an investment. A $1,000 scholarship through Scholarship Owl for example, may cover months of coaching or training that helps you monetize a skill, refine a business idea, or prepare for a career pivot. The same is true of certifications: the right credential can help you qualify for roles you were previously shut out of. And now, with internet access and AI tools, information is more available than ever. The challenge is no longer only access. The challenge is motivation, follow-through, and being honest about whether you are willing to do the work behind the change you say you want. The Bottom Line: Stop Living in Survival Mode Cost of living keeps rising, and working-class professionals are feeling it. That is exactly why self-advocacy is not optional. It is how you protect your livelihood, expand your options, and stop waiting for someone else to notice that you deserve more. Ask for the salary. Negotiate the offer. Request the promotion. Seek the training. Apply elsewhere if you are blocked. Price your services with confidence. Follow up with potential partners. Charge for your expertise. Look for scholarships. Use mentorship. Learn the tools. Build the skills. Then keep moving. If you are exploring a career or business pivot, consider joining the upcoming virtual mini career fair on August 11th at 1:30 PM ET in honor of Black Business Month. It is designed to help working-class professionals explore industries, ask questions, connect with mentors, and decide whether a new path is right for them. For more information, text our business line at 984-477-9791. ***************This blog was AI generated from a transcript from the writer's live on Substack.*************************************************************  A Vignette:
Meet Janet. Janet is a 22 year old who just graduated with her master’s in business administration looking to get into screenwriting. She has always had a passion for writing and has an idea that she wants to bring to the big screen. However, being that she just got out of school, she is not looking to take out more student loans or go into credit card debt to go back to school to learn the art of screenwriting. So, what is Janet going to do for her BIG dream come true? Enter Wite Collar. Janet’s friend tells her about the Wite Collar app and how she might find a mentor who can teach her the skillset of screenwriting. Janet’s friend tells her that the app has mentors that have been vetted so Janet can feel secure about finding a quality mentor. Janet does not hesitate and onboards with the Wite Collar platform. Janet is easily connected to a mentor, Karen, who has a skillset in screenwriting that she can meet with virtually, which works perfectly for Janet’s busy schedule. Janet and her mentor, Karen, meet once a week where Karen and Janet discuss her idea for a screenplay. Karen also teaches Janet the elements of screenwriting so that Janet can start creating her screenplay. Within three months, Janet begins working on her screenplay and feels confident about continuing this journey on her own after receiving Karen’s guidance. Janet agrees with Karen that if she needs any further assistance, she will come back to Wite Collar to do regular check-ins with Karen to help keep Janet accountable until Janet’s screenplay is done. Karen and Janet part ways, allowing Janet to fully invest her time in working on her screenwriting project. The way Wite Collar worked for Janet is the same way that Wite Collar can work for you. If you need a skills builder/mentor to teach you a particular skillset and how to monetize it, then partner with Wite Collar to help you achieve your goal. Just download the app, create a free account, and then send a connection request to a mentor you are interested in matching with. After they accept the request, the mentorship can begin virtually or in person, whichever way you prefer to receive mentorship. At WIte Collar, we believe in customizing mentorship for the mentee so the mentee can receive the maximum benefit from the learning experience. So, if you are ready to adopt a new skillset because there is a passion you want to fulfill, connect with Wite Collar today.  A Vignette:
Meet Julie. Julie wants to learn how to garden but has no green thumb and doesn't want to scour the internet for tips because that would take way too long. She really just wants someone to teach her but no one she knows gardens. Enter Wite Collar. She discovers Wite Collar on YouTube and decides to sign up on the app and see who she can find as a gardening mentor. She gets matched to a mentor, Hannah, that she meets with virtually for gardening advice and they meet on weekly, where Julie shows Hannah her starter garden. By Julie sharing her screen with Hannah, Hannah is able to give her detailed advice on what she needs to do to nurture her garden as well as sends her gardening tips via direct message to help her along. Julie is grateful for Hannah’s advice and that she is always readily available to answer any questions she might have. After six months of receiving gardening advice, Julie’s garden is blooming and she has way more produce than she intended. She continues to work with Hannah on whether she should start a community garden or sell her produce. Hannah’s advisement helps Julie decide to start a community garden and Hannah helps Julie to connect with another Mentor on the app to help her start her nonprofit business. Mentorship is not always about helping you to make money but most importantly to connect you to your vision and purpose.  Let me be honest with you — I have been telling people to diversify their income for years. Multiple streams of income. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Build something on the side. You've heard it. I've said it. Probably too many times to count.
But here's what was always missing: a name for it. That changed when I came across a blog post by Morgan DeBaun — founder of Blavity, Travel Noire, AfroTech, and a handful of other ventures — where she talked about something called a portfolio career. And I'll be honest, my first reaction was “what the heck is that?” So, I did what any curious person does: I kept reading. Turns out, a portfolio career is exactly what I've been talking about all along. It just finally has a label. What Is a Portfolio Career, exactly? A portfolio career is when you intentionally build multiple streams of income rather than depending on one source to carry you. Think of it the way a financial advisor thinks about an investment portfolio — you don't put everything into one stock. You spread it out so that if one thing dips, the others hold you up. In practice, a portfolio career might look like this: you have your main job — your salary or hourly income — and on the side, you're running a business or a hustle. You've got some investments generating dividends. Maybe you're an affiliate for a brand you actually use and believe in, pulling in some passive income there. Perhaps you're a brand ambassador for a company in your industry. Each of these things, stacked together, makes up your financial picture. Morgan DeBaun reportedly has nine income streams. Nine. So, if one dries up — a business underperforms, a contract ends, a market shifts — she still has eight other sources keeping her afloat. That's not luck. That's architecture. She built herself an insurance policy, and the portfolio career is the blueprint. Isn't That Just Having a Bunch of Side Hustles? I knew someone was going to say that, because someone actually did when I responded to their post on portfolio careers. A young woman pushed back on the whole portfolio career concept, arguing it was really just glorified side-hustle culture — and therefore not something she could get behind. I hear that. And honestly? She's not entirely wrong. Multiple side hustles can be part of a portfolio career. A serial entrepreneur juggling three different ventures is technically living that portfolio life. But I don't think that's the whole picture. The more evolved version of a portfolio career is a smart mix of active and passive income. Not just grinding at five different jobs simultaneously but building income streams that don't all require the same amount of your time and energy. Passive income — dividends, affiliates, royalties — can work while you sleep. That's the part that makes the portfolio career genuinely sustainable, not just exhausting. That said, I want to be clear about something: there is nothing wrong with having multiple side hustles if that's what works for you. Some people are wired for it. They have the energy, the passion, the drive to be doing three things at once and loving every minute of it. I'm not here to tell those people they're doing it wrong. We have to stop acting like there's only one path to success. There isn't. Two things can be true at once: you can thrive with multiple hustles, and you can thrive with one focused income stream. Both are valid. What matters is that you are not depleted, not overstretched, and not one bad month away from financial disaster. You Don't Have to Leave Your Lane Here's what I find most exciting about the portfolio career concept — and what I think gets overlooked in the conversation: you don't have to abandon your industry to diversify your income within it. Take a photographer. You shoot weddings, birthday parties, corporate events. That's your bread and butter. But what else can you do inside that same lane? You could coach aspiring photographers who want to start their own business. You could consult. You could partner with a camera equipment brand and become their ambassador — earning income by talking about tools you already use anyway. That's not spreading yourself thin across random industries. That's working smarter within the world you already know. I went through this same evolution in my own publishing business. For a long time, I was solely focused on selling books. I'm published, I'm an author, that's the plan. But then I realized I'd gotten good enough at book publishing that I could teach it. So, I added self-publishing coaching. Now I'm building out blogging coaching for authors who want to grow an audience before their book drops. Same industry. Multiple revenue lines. That's the move. Ask yourself: what else can I offer inside the thing I'm already good at? The Economy Isn't Giving Us a Choice I'll be direct here. In this economic climate, relying on a single stream of income is a risk most of us can't afford to take. The market is unstable. AI is reshaping industries faster than people can pivot. Companies are downsizing. Demand for skills that seemed ironclad five years ago is evaporating. The people who are going to be okay are the ones who didn't wait for a disruption to force their hand. They're the ones who built a second door — or a third — before they ever needed to use it. We're back in a Renaissance era, in a way. The idea of being one thing and only one thing is starting to feel less like focus and more like fragility. Being a photographer who also consults, coaches, and does brand partnerships isn't scattered — it's resilient. And yes, if you start dipping into three or four completely different industries with no overlap, that can lead to burnout. I've seen it. But staying in your wheelhouse while expanding what you offer within it? That's not overextending. That's just smart. What If You Need to Build a New Skill First? Sometimes building a portfolio career means you need to grow before you can diversify. And that growth doesn't always have to come from going back to school. I'll be transparent: I'm personally exploring getting a doctorate right now. I'm choosing a field where I know the credential will open doors and create real opportunities — including the possibility of being a free agent in my industry. A doctorate, in the right field, is its own income-diversifying move. But I also know that not everyone wants — or can afford — to take on more student loan debt. And that's a completely reasonable position. School doesn't come with a guarantee. You can spend years and tens of thousands of dollars and still find yourself in a market that doesn't reward what you studied. That's where mentorship becomes a serious alternative worth considering. Not as a lesser option, but as a different one. Mentorship is essentially private tutoring — instead of sitting in a classroom with 30 other people, you're getting focused, one-on-one guidance from someone who has already walked the road you're trying to walk. They help you get to the finish line faster, with less wasted time and money. In some fields, like medical coding, you don't need a degree at all — but having a mentor who's been through the process can shave significant time off your certification journey and get you earning sooner. The Bottom Line Portfolio careers aren't a trend or a buzzword. They're a long-overdue framework for something savvy people have been doing quietly for decades. The name just makes it easier to talk about, easier to plan for, and easier to commit to. The question isn't really is a portfolio career a good or bad thing? It just depends on the person, as most things do. The better question is what would your version of a portfolio career look like? What can you add — inside your existing field, inside your existing expertise — that creates another door? What partnerships make sense? What skills do you have that someone else would pay to learn from you? Start there. The architecture builds itself once you ask the right questions. This is an AI generated blog post from our live on Substack.
Wite Collar, an online platform that matches users for professional mentorship via a mobile application (0:13-0:25). The co-founder Kira highlights their virtual career fairs (0:38) as a key feature, designed to be more convenient and targeted than traditional in-person events.
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The Power of Focus, Routine, and Mentorship
In today’s world, distractions are everywhere—especially from social media. In this audio blog, Kira Parris- Moore shares insights offering practical advice for anyone feeling overwhelmed or unfocused. Staying Focused in a Distracted World Kira Parris-Moore emphasizes how easy it is to lose sight of our goals amid constant information overload. If you find yourself endlessly scrolling and not making progress, it’s time for a social media detox. Start by establishing a routine and prioritizing self-care. Journaling and planning can help clarify your objectives and keep you on track. Challenges Facing Young People and Adults Many young people today are living at home, working minimum wage jobs, and struggling to find direction—even after earning degrees. Formal education doesn’t always guarantee financial stability, and entrepreneurship, while appealing, is also challenging and requires support and capital. Why Mentorship Matters Mentorship is a central theme in Kira Parris Moore's message. Everyone, regardless of age or stage in life, can benefit from having a mentor—a “life buddy” who provides guidance, accountability, and wisdom. Investing in mentorship is portrayed as a more effective and affordable path to personal and professional growth than traditional education or fleeting entertainment. Investing in Yourself Audit your finances and prioritize investing in yourself. Seek out mentors who can connect you to opportunities and networks. Don’t let money be an excuse; often, the resources are there if you look closely. Call to Action Take advantage of available resources, such as office hours and mentorship programs, to make lasting changes. Ensure that every year builds on the progress of the last, and don’t let opportunities pass you by. Key Takeaways
This blog post captures the spirit and actionable advice from Kira Parris’s audio blog, inspiring readers to take charge of their lives and pursue meaningful progress. If you like more content like this, be sure to subscribe to the website and follow the Wite Collar YouTube channel.  When it comes to your career, everyone should have Plan B whether it is a side hustle or business in the event of a layoff or unexpected circumstance. Lot of times, people give their all to their career and whatever is left over to the business they have on the side. People focus on retirement from The Job before they focus on working on Their Dream. The Dream always takes a backseat to what they give to their employer. People historically have always put themselves last.
Well tomorrow isn’t promised. People may think they have plenty of time to pursue what they want but many die before they get a chance to. Most of the time, people don’t take that leap of faith and pursue their dreams fully unless they are forced to because of a job loss. People like safety and comfort. Jobs used to provide that. However, in this current job market, job security no longer exists. AI is taking your job. But don’t take it personal; AI is replacing a lot of people’s positions. Graphic designer, web designer, copywriter, customer service rep, consultant, etc. the list goes on. Soon it will replace jobs in healthcare like nursing, counseling, medical coding, once the second iteration of AI comes out. We are ALL at risk. If you think your job is safe from AI, you best believe someone is training AI to replace your job too. AI just hasn’t gotten advanced enough to replace you…yet. But believe that AI one day will… Companies are looking to work off a skeleton workforce to increase their profitability. Corporations are all about the bottom line. If their bottom line looks more red than black, you best believe they are looking to automate systems in their organization to replace people. Lot of times, this is because of pressure from investors to appear profitable even if they are not. Firing you is never personal, for them it is necessary means to an end in order to continue to keep their business going. However, being fired feels very personal to you as you probably gave your all to a company who thought nothing of discarding you when the time was right. This is exactly why your Plan B should become your Plan A. Having a corporate intrapreneur mindset allows you to give just enough of your energy to your employer while reserving the bulk of what you have for your own business. Your company is an investment and it’s your legacy. Your company can’t be put on the back burner for a later date and time. You should leave your 9 to 5 every day knowing that your 5 to 9 will become your real bread and butter. Yes, it may not pay your bills right now but eventually your business will if you invest enough time and energy in your company. If you are ready to expound on your 5 to 9 in 2026, join our dynamic network to gain access to trusted and vetted mentors. Mentorship can give you perspective on your business that will help your business grow more quickly and allow you to eventually leave your 9 to 5. Entrepreneurship can provide you with the security you are looking for if you find a strategic partner for your business. A mentor can be just the kind of help you need to turn your dream to retire from your job into a reality. Join our community to gain access to multi-faceted mentors who can offer you education on the many disciplines they are experienced in. We specialize in skillpreneurship, recruiting professionals with various monetizable skillsets. If you want to meet one of these skillpreneurs IRL, we have mini career fairs every Tuesday from 1-2 pm EST, where you can have a meet and greet with mentors from our app community. If you want to join our app community now, our app can be found on Google Playstore and Apple Appstore. Let us be a conduit to help you turn your Plan B into your Plan A! See you soon.  As a business owner, I have tried both business networking platforms like Alignable and LinkedIn, at the recommendations of others who knowing what I do felt that these platforms could help grow my business by helping me make valuable connections. However, what I found was more of the same ole, same ole. Grandstanding, exclusivity, and inauthenticity. People try to sell you on their business without wanting to get to know you. Marketing dressed up as connection. As a therapist by trade, this was not my cup of tea.
I was made to feel like “a means to an end.” Like not a person but a prospect that could help create some cash flow for someone’s business. Inboxes full of sales pitches with no greetings that left me feeling cheap. People who wanted to sell me their services but did not want to have a relationship with me. This method of marketing was predatory and screamed capitalism. I was wondering if I was the only one feeling this way… I talked to some other friends and did some research online (mostly Reddit because those people are brutally honest) and found that I was not alone. Posts complaining about the same themes with Alignable and LinkedIn and feeling like they were both very Spammy. One person cited that Alignable had sent emails to all their phone contacts without their permission and it had damaged their reputation. Another sharing that LinkedIn felt more like Facebook than a place to grow your professional network. All of these sentiments I concur with as I’ve spent several months on both and have only taken a few connections off that platform, despite spending a lot of time on each. So not being invested was not the issue. The issue is these platforms which were once curated to deliver valuable connections, help people find jobs, or grow one’s business are not measuring up to their initial premise for many. I understand as a business owner the feeling of being hungry and wanting to get your business off the ground but we must respect the boundaries of others at the same time. No one wants to be sold to. No one wants to feel like when they are talking to you that you have an agenda. People want to feel a sense of belonging and community and that is the real reason that most people join these platforms. I can’t say I am not guilty of making the same mistake but I can say I have a better approach when it comes to the business of selling than most. I am not pushy and will not even attempt to continue discussion about our platform if the person on the receiving end is not interested. We have the right to decline things that do not serve our interests. We also have the right to match and unmatch from connections that were never really about connecting but just getting your business. We have the right to feel like the people that are a part of our virtual world are genuinely interested in our growth and our success as much as we are invested in their own. Reciprocal business relationships are hard to find but not impossible to identify. There are people out there that genuinely want to help others. Not to line their pockets, but because giving back fulfils them. Giving back is something that they enjoy doing and they yearn to expand their reach. These are the types of people I meet all the time in my line of business and can tell that this philanthropic spirit lives inside of them. They just need an avenue to be able to do this more because of their lack of visibility on social media. I call these “hidden gem mentors.” People who are steadfast in working their business but are humbly successful and don’t need a lot of fanfare. They know what they are talking about but are not loud about it on social media. They are not identified as thought leaders on the internet but they most certainly have the knowledge to impart on others once you speak with them one on one. Speaking to these types of mentors is not only refreshing but restores your faith that they are good people in this world. I am glad to know a few of them. Anyway, I am realizing that what we have built on Wite Collar is exactly the platform I have been searching for and that the relationships we have curated with our members are the model that we want to create for this world. We may not be an established brand or big business but what we are is just as valuable. We are bringing back “good humanship” where people are more invested in helping others than helping themselves. A people helping people community that creates a straightforward path to career or business success. If you haven’t found your “right fit” for a community either, consider joining ours. See you soon, Kira~ Wite Collar app founder  You read that right. Me and LinkedIn are through! Not by choice but by force. LinkedIn been acting funny and I decided it was not for me anymore…
Initially, it started with my views going down significantly in the last couple of weeks. At first this was strange given that I had consistently been getting very high views for the last six months. Thousands of views now went down to just hundreds in the last few weeks. Could it have been because I was posting less? Perhaps. But it felt very much like I was being shadow banned and LinkedIn was hating on me. As you can imagine, the lack of views affected my engagement. Now I don’t get a huge amount of engagement on LinkedIn since I am fairly new to the platform (six months newbie here) but I was slowly building up my followers and I had a few regulars liking our posts. But what got us was those regulars suddenly disappeared and I no longer saw them. Or was it they no longer saw me? Who knows…. The final straw is that I reported someone’s repost of a post I made yesterday and it flagged my account and now my account is restricted. Multiple messages along with tickets have been sent to LinkedIn Customer Support but to no avail. It’s like a merry go around of sending in tickets and then verification of id details page comes up but no ability to submit any identification. Or my sign-in page gets stuck on the Security Check screen. It’s like LinkedIn is playing with me. My vigilance caused my own account to get flagged, LOL! And now the universe doesn’t want me to get back with LinkedIn. It wouldn’t be so bad if I had not just advertised for a job on LinkedIn. There was plenty of interest during the three day trial when I posted the position but now I am unable to reach those applicants because of the account restriction. It’s frustrating but it taught me a hard lesson. Never rely on social media to do business. Get that customer data immediately and take the communication off the platform. The platform is just there to assist with the connection not to be the main form of communication. You never know when the platform will shut you down. It can happen due to anything they consider an infraction. Whether they are right or not doesn’t matter, the results are the same; you can’t reach your business connections. So, it’s crucial that you get their contact information ASAP so you can continue to connect with them online elsewhere. Thank God, I have contact information for all my business connections. Otherwise, this would be another sad story of an entrepreneur having to start over because of some mishap on a social media platform. I always feel bad for those creators who are so distraught about having lost access to their account and then forced to create a new one to regain access to their connections. Good thing I am not a content creator and am not dependent on my followers. LinkedIn and I can take some time apart and see other people. It’s all good. If my account ever gets restored in the future, maybe I will give LinkedIn another chance but if not, I will be just fine without it. My peace won’t be disturbed because of a social media platform. I can make do without LinkedIn being a part of my life. It didn’t make or break me before… There’s nothing wrong with connecting on social media. Social media makes communication more accessible and attainable and allows you to have a wider reach. However, never put all your eggs in one basket and only use social media to communicate with those you connect with. Be sure you have other ways to access your business connections to keep the communication going. This assurance will make you more resilient if and when a social media platform you are on decides to cancel your account because now you have a back-up plan. Remember, social media is a tool not a replacement for good communication in business. Don’t ever over-rely on social media. Connect with us on email at [email protected] or text at 1-877-892-8868 if you want to learn more about the Wite Collar platform. We also have office hours today between 1-2 pm EST if you want to meet with us and ask questions. See you soon, Kira ~ Wite Collar app co-founder |
FounderKira is an avid blogger and co-founder of Wite Collar and is heavily invested in the launch and growth of startups nationwide. Archives
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